5-Day Course: The Games You're Actually Playing
Day 1: Map Your Identity Contradictions
Part of Day 1: The Trap of Static Identity. Read the Validation Distance Problem deep dive for full context.
Instructions
Part 1: List 5–10 ways people have described you or roles you've played
- Include job titles, labels others use, identities you've tried on
- Be specific: "Product manager at X" not just "PM"
Part 2: For each identity, write
- What it makes legible about you
- What it hides or distorts
- Why you couldn't stay in it (or haven't fully committed to it)
Part 3: Identify the patterns
- What capabilities show up across multiple identities but don't fit any single one?
- What questions can you answer that none of these identities explain?
- What positions can you model that these identities don't capture?
Part 4: The synthesis
- Write 2–3 paragraphs describing what you actually do in terms of capabilities and perspectives, not identities
- Then try to compress it into a single identity label
- Note what gets lost in the compression
- This is the gap that games will solve
Submission format
- PDF or markdown document
- Must include all four parts
- Part 4 synthesis must be specific enough that someone could verify your claims
What we're looking for
- Recognition that identity labels are lossy compression
- Awareness of what gets lost
- Ability to articulate capability without identity crutches
- Honesty about the contradiction, not resolution of it
Submit your work
Link to your completed exercise (Google Doc, Notion, Dropbox, etc.). Required for workshop discount.